Here’s how Urban Dictionary might say it…
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Holy Crap
Moment
Bad news revealed in front of a group of oblivious people
“So, we’re watching this VCR tape, where my uncle
recorded his ‘last will and testament’ before he died. And he goes, ‘I hate my
family, and therefore I’m leaving all of my vast wealth to charity. You all get
nothing.’ It was a real holy crap moment.”
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Holy Crap
Moment
The instant that a team at once realizes something
surprising and dismaying, where most people in the group are inclined to yell,
“holy crap!”
“The finance guy came in and told us that our expense
numbers were way out-of-whack, and there’s only 1 week left in the quarter. We
had a serious holy crap moment
after that!”
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How It Goes
We’ve all been there. Everything is going along just fine at
work. Energy is good. People are working hard. Now, we’re having a meeting to
discuss progress on the decisions made at an offsite meeting several weeks ago.
Then it happens.
Scrum Master: So, looking at the canvas we did at the
offsite, I’ve created stories in the backlog for all of the stuff we said we
would do on the project. And, voila….
Team Member 1: Looks great!
Product Owner: Wait just a minute here. That’s not right
at all!!
Team Member 2: It’s not?!?!
Product Own: No!!!
Everyone: Holy crap!!!!
What Is True
Here are some things that are true. The holy crap moment:
*Reveals something that was true before it happened.
*Ignites a period of chaos and emotion, which needs to pass before anything can rationally be done.
*Brings out the best in some people and the worst in others.
*Represents a collective failure. If everyone is in the same “holy crap” situation, then there is no room to blame an individual.
*Reveals something that was true before it happened.
*Ignites a period of chaos and emotion, which needs to pass before anything can rationally be done.
*Brings out the best in some people and the worst in others.
*Represents a collective failure. If everyone is in the same “holy crap” situation, then there is no room to blame an individual.
What You Can Do
If you sense a holy crap moment in your future, find a
way to make it happen sooner rather than later.
One critical element of the holy crap moment is that it
introduces urgency to a situation where no urgency previously existed. The
earlier the problem is revealed, the more time you have to deal with it.
There’s an old saw that sums it up, “the best time to realize this would have
been 6 weeks ago; the second best time is right now.”
Find the goodness in the holy crap moment.
Once the shock and dismay has subsided, look at the
situation as an opportunity to make something right before something truly
disastrous happens. It also might be an opening for an individual to embrace
the urgency and become a hero or emergent leader.
In your warnings about a holy crap moment, include data,
not just your intuition.
If you sense a holy crap moment on the horizon, sharing your
intuition is probably not enough to spur the team to proactive action. Find and
present facts in a controlled manner and let a kinder, gentler version of the
holy crap moment unfold.
Reflect on the holy crap moment
Holy crap moments are usually the product a sub-optimal way
of working. Nonetheless, even good teams have them, and everyone can learn from
them. After the dust settles, ask yourselves: How did we get here? Why did that
moment happen? What do we need to do differently going forward to not have that
happen again? What did we learn about how we work together and treat each other
in such situations?
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Holy crap moments happen. It’s how your team responds that
is most important.